You have to be a bastard to make it, and that’s a fact. And the Beatles are the biggest bastards on earth.
Interesting – we all think of Oprah, The Beatles, and all the other wildly successful entertainers, musicians and artist in the way that they wish to be thought of – benevolent and kind, caring and giving. However, what we often overlook is that they all posses an unbridled passion to succeed. To “make it” as John Lennon would say. And what they ask us to forget is the bastard part. In doing so a valuable lesson is lost. Success requires relentless work, focus and drive, as well as a healthy dose of reality – the reality that to a degree you “have to be a bastard to make it”. Remember – this is John “Give Peace a Chance” Lennon talking.
It is not a contradiction. In athletes the “killer instinct” is praised. Michael Jordan was known as the ultimate closer; Kobi Bryant “the assassin”; Lance Armstrong the perfectionist. We demand it of our athletic champions, yet we do not want to see it or even acknowledge that it just might exist in our entertainers, business leaders and even political leaders. Dare I say Bill Gates and Warren Buffett for all their public posturing about donating their estates have and had massive reserves of drive and a fair degree of “bastard” in them when it came to their business dealings.
It is not a bad thing having the drive and focus to succeed coupled with the ability to sacrifice and to make the tough, unpopular decisions. That is the “bastard” trait John Lennon was speaking of from his days with The Beatles. They had to make tough, cutting, real world business decisions – they had to sacrifice, to work literally thousands of hours, to pour in all they had to become what they became. It did not make them bad people. It was business. Sometimes business and leadership, entertainment and sports, success and achievement requires a bit of the bastard in all of us. It is not a bad thing. It is reality. It is sort of hard to believe – that “bastard” would have been 70 tomorrow.